Single, curvy, sista that is open, honest, real and drama free. I'm looking to meet SBM, (Single Black Men) in the bay area, east contra costa county would be a bonus. I'm enjoying life, just looking for someone to spend time with, to explore new things in this great big world. Being true to myself, I'm a nickel looking for my nickel, who thinks I'm a dime and vise versa. Please send me an email, if interested.

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ok, I'm a work-aholic. I need to do something social today. Anyone want to meet for drinks in Oakland? I'm very fit (yoga chick) tall, white, brunette smart, sexual. Please send a CLEAR and RECENT pic in your response and your age in the heading. I will not respond otherwise.

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I don't mind if you have gray hair or some/most of it missing. It's OK if you have wrinkles and it's OK if your waist line isn't what it was 20 years ago. It's certainly OK if you don't party like you used to and it's OK if you like small, intimate gatherings. It's OK if you don't move as fast or think quite as fast anymore.

Much of the above refers to me as well. The hair is colored the same as it was before it was gray, I have wrinkles, weigh more than I did 20 years ago. I'm smart although would like to have about 7 more IQ points. I'm educated, own my home and don't have a car payment. I like walks with the two dogs and really enjoy my 20 y.o. son who still lives at home (and is employed and in school).

I'm looking for someone to grow old with. I would like to fall in love again for the last time. It's OK if we have differences, people are different. But there has to be enough similarities for it to work or at least mutual tolerance of one another. There's lots of things I like to do but would so much like to do them with someone - day trips, Carmel and down hwy 1 to Big Sur, movies, dinners, museums. I love to read. People our age have lived the experiences of life and the resultant wounds and scars. But they just add depth and our souls grow and learn from them, hopefully.

My mother is a right wing, evangelical Christian yet has been married three times. She says that love is a crap shoot. But you gotta place a bet in order to win anything. I'm looking to win this time and maybe you're the jackpot.

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Me-single, cute, nice, educated, have a job, have a sense of humor, Asian-American, no drama
You- single, cute, over 5'8", educated, have a job, between 30-40, can carry a conversation, nice, no drama
We-want to cuddle. Not looking for friends with benefits. Possibly open to relationship too.

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Im a sexxy chick who is very open to new things. I am looking for a guy who's handsome! I enjoy being playful.

Can host. No pic no e-Mail back.

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Waiting for a LOYAL Kind Loving SOULmate for Valentines !!! Take me ASAP... Bet you'd be HAPPY & SMILING !!!

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You have an idea in your head of what you are looking for, but then you have to get out there and try things on. Sometimes you can see a pair of boots that look great on the shelf. You try them on only to find out that they are the wrong color, wrong size, too tight, too loose, or will only go with skinny jeans and not your favorite pair of boot cut jeans. So you keep looking for the perfect pair. The one that's already on your mind. Often it will take many hours of "shopping" and multilple stops at multiple stores until you find the one you were looking for all along.

I am not looking for a pair of boots here. I am looking for a SINGLE WHITE MALE (SWM) between MID-40s - EARLY 50's, (NO EXCEPTIONS) strong and confident, and someone that is my type; (i.e. that I am attracted to). Afterall, ATTRACTION is what draws us to one another, then PERSONALITY will keep us together.

I generally prefer tall, dark hair, clean shaven, HWP, rugged look... but there are always exceptions. Please live near Walnut Creek / Pleasant Hill,

As they say "PIC for PIC"... so please include your pic in your reply. Also please tell me your age and where you live...

I'm 5'1", light brown hair, petite, and live at the border of Pleasant Hill and Concord. .

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Need someone to keep me company on Saturday...
I need a major distraction!
Any suggestions ?

no sex...no cockshots.
I need a tall man to make me laugh!

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I am a single 43 yr old who is staying with my mother in Antioch to take care of her. I have evenings free and i would love to hang out with an older man who appreciate the company of a real woman. Bif we like the company then we make love. Im here for several weeks and back to home. So it will be a short term thing but lets have fun with it only if you can host. Im professional and work hard so if we get some dinner I am happy to pay my share.

Im 5 ' 6 180lbs brown long hair brown eyes very sensual and sexual. Looking to have a hood time with a big man.

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Me: Nerdy, funky, critically-thinking, and sweet; super-curvaceous, independent, brainy, and juicy.

You: Extra-smart, safe, sane, and single; any race and passionate about something.

Please send a modest photo and a description for a reply.

• Location: Oakland
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Busco un amigo con quien podemos conversar y
salir por un cafe, te o ir al cine, y ver si hay alguna
conexion. responder con foto por favor.

Suerte!

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Thanks for taking the time to look at my ad.

One good woman seeks one good man for the third act, for friendship and possibly more. I am an attractive, intelligent, professional woman, compassionate, caring, communicative,
love the outdoors, hiking, beaches, mountains. I have a passion for world travel and have traveled extensively in the world. Love photography, yoga, art museums,
bookstores, ethnic restaurants, gourmet cooking, local travel, adventure, movies, theater, love music of all kinds except rap. Politically left of center. Non smoking.

Seeking attractive, intelligent, trustworthy, man of integrity, caring, communicative with a sense of adventure. Must share some of my interests, sense of
humor a must. Non smoking only!

If you resonate with any of the above please send a reply with information about yourself.

Thanks!

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I am Latina and consider myself to be smart and pretty independent. I am 5'3 and I have been told I am thick. I am generally happy with myself and where I am at. I am looking for someone to share new experiences with and to explore they Bay a little bit. I think this should be light and fun, but I also am looking for something more serious in the long term. This brings me to say that if you are loving the bachelor life then keep at it and have fun, but I am not really interested in that. I am also looking for romance because I have never really had that (and want to be upfront that I enjoy getting flowers and having ppl do nice things for me.)

About you: I really want a Latino who has a Bachelor's degree (went to a 4 year college and graduated) and is in pursuit of a profession that is really important to me and I am being upfront about it. Should be 26-31.

Send me an email with the name of your favorite tv show in the title. Lets email for a while and see where this is going and if nothing else you get a short term penpal :)

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So, let's be real.

We all want companionship and sex, right? None of us want to grow old alone, do we? So, why not cultivate a quality friendship with a beautiful black woman (BBW), who has her stuff together and see what develops.

If you're interested, send me your stats and pic and we can take it from there.

My preference is a beautiful black man, over 35, employed and independent.

NO PIC NO REPLY

• Location: CONTRA COSTA COUNTY OR ALAMEDA COUNTY
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I'M A SEXY INDEPENDENT BLACK WOMAN ISO OF A SEXY INDEPENDENT BLACK MAN.

PLEASE BE OVER 35 AND INCLUDE A PIC.

NO PIC NO REPLY. AN EMAIL WITHOUT A PIC WILL BE DELETED IMMEDIATELY.

• Location: BAY AREA AND BEYOND
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Hi! If you're a vet or a therapist or in another type of career that involves helping animals, people, or both, then I may want to meet you! :-)

Me: recovering over-achiever, 5'5," regular exerciser, animal lover, curious sort, question-asker, fine dining lover, attracted to men in suits and usually (though not always) men older than me.

Write, send a pic, make me smile & keep believing in humanity :) Big reader with genuine heart very welcome - teenagers ok, small children less so.

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Let me be clear. I want a boyfriend/ that someone special !

Not just want one for our friend's get together's or just the holidays.

Let's recognize something. The holidays suck, especially for us single people. All of our coupled friends are going to be doing couple things: snuggling by the fire, going to dinner at each others' friend's/ parents houses, blahblahbarf.

Let's recognize another thing. Deep down inside, you don't want to be alone. You want someone to do all of those cute snuggly things with, someone to keep warm next to (let's also recognize that it's getting cold out there), but it's going to be HOT !!! and someone to accompany you to your friends get together's / holiday's so they don't keep thinking you're a loser destined for permanent solo status.

But, you've spent a lot of your time looking for her.... that special someone..... ME :-) / getting drunk and haven't had the time or inclination to track down and capture a girlfriend. And even if you did, you're not really sure you'd want to keep her after your friend's get together's or holiday's anyway.

The solution:
This is when you get to fill in the blanks with your heart....and send them to me. Pay attention now please to what I just said.Thank You !!

How it works:
You reply with a picture and a brief bio.Or at least give it your best try...... please .Like your age, where you live, how tall are you. and what you have to offer. If it seems like a good fit we'll set up a casual mini-date (coffee, beer, or whatever). If that's a success and we're both feeling it, we'll go on our first of many dates.

The benefits:
� Did I mention ... I love to cuddle ??? :-) (I have references.)
� I like to cook.clean. and know how to keep my man happy !!
� Worried about finding someone that knows how to kiss also .... Boom! Got you covered all over......

About Me:
46 years old, tall, slender, nice smile, and yes I floss everyday. And I have all the right stuff, I'm not into games !! Please give me something to go on here.Come on guys, anyone real out there???
It's not about just you !! or about just me !! It's about us... from here on out please. We are both getting to old for games.

Interested? Then send your pic and bio about yourself, your mind, your body, and your soul, and get this ball rolling. And a phone number if you wish. PLEASE PUT " BOOM" IN THE SUBJECT LINE.... I don't want any spam, or you call boy's making me go to another site.

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Hi, I'm 39 Asian women from China. I'm looking for a long term relationship. Between 38 to 48 years and least 5'10"
please send me your photos and write about yourself. Thank you.

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Looking for an honest man for LTR .. please be honest and do not play games..
I am an educated and honest lady. I have been single mom for long time and now my son have moved out from house to continue his education in LA . I live alone and I am very flexible to star a ne w relationship with the right person now.
If you are an educated and setteldown in your life then we might be a good match .. Lets not waste our time anymore in this CL ...
If interested pleased send me an email with your description of..education, career, kids, where you live, and your gaol in life..and your pic then we take it from there..

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Hello my future Berkeley lovers.
Do you have facial hair? Do you have a puppy? Are you a man?
I will suffice for a cat and a bit of scruff but no other concessions will be made.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Because let's be real, forget long walks on the beach.
Beards, men, and cute animals are all a girl really wants.

muchos besos y amor

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